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When desire is irrational: here are the little things that get people excited without a reason

When Desire is Irrational: Little Things that Get People Excited Novelty & Surprise: Unpredictability sparks dopamine. Forbidden Fruit: Scarcity and restriction heighten desire. Sensory Stimulation: Arousal can be triggered by various senses (touch, smell, sound). Emotional Connection: Strong bonds can intensify physical attraction. Social Influence: Observing others can influence desire. Mindfulness of Sensual Experience: Awareness of the body and its sensations plays a crucial role. Hormones and Neurochemicals: Biological factors influence sexual response. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3572567/ https://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/features/xge-a0035771.pdf Source: iStock 10 not entirely rational desires The heart has reasons that reason does not know, and the same can be said for the desire. […]

How the female body changes when falling in love and having sex

When falling in love and engaging in sexual activity, the female body undergoes various physiological changes: 1. Increased heart rate and blood pressure 2. Release of oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin, promoting bonding and pleasure 3. Elevated levels of estrogen and testosterone 4. Dilated pupils 5. Flushed skin due to increased blood flow 6. Heightened sensitivity to touch 7. Vaginal lubrication 8. Swelling of the vulva and clitoris 9. Breast enlargement and nipple erection 10. Uterine contractions during orgasm 11. Temporary suppression of immune function 12. Increased pain tolerance 13. Changes in appetite and sleep patterns 14. Improved mood and reduced […]

Sex in pregnancy is good, in fact great, and we explain why

Sex during pregnancy can be both safe and beneficial for many couples. It can help maintain intimacy and emotional connection during a time of significant change. Hormonal shifts may increase libido in some women, particularly during the second trimester. Sexual activity can improve mood and reduce stress through the release of endorphins and oxytocin. Regular intercourse may help prepare the body for labor by softening the cervix and strengthening pelvic floor muscles. Orgasms can also improve sleep quality and alleviate pregnancy discomfort. For low-risk pregnancies, sex poses no threat to the fetus, as it is protected by the amniotic sac […]

Sexual desire increases in spring and summer, here’s why

Increased daylight hours and warmer temperatures in spring and summer trigger hormonal changes associated with heightened libido Source: 123RF A couple in love in spring There is no doubt that the arrival of spring and then of thesummer improves mood, sociability, and even sexual desire. The perpetrators are always the hormones, the production of which is affected by exposure to light and sunlight. An example? During the summer months, the body experiences a peak production of GH, also called growth hormone, and of testosterone, the hormone that instead regulates pleasure and sexual desire. In contrast, there is a drastic reduction […]

Sex: our top tips for increasing pleasure by experimenting

1 Source: iStock Increasing a woman’s sexual pleasure in intimacy is possible Increasing a woman’s sexual pleasure in intimacy is possible: no, there are no magic formulas, just a few techniques and tricks that can increase female pleasure. First of all, to experience more pleasure in intimacy, it is essential not to focus solely and exclusively on achieving orgasm, obsessively. Enjoy the moment and don’t get overwhelmed by the idea that if you don’t orgasm you have wasted time and experience: try to feel good in intimacy with your partner regardless of the quantity and quality of the orgasm you […]

10 false myths about menstruation to dispel now to live free

Myth: Menstruation is dirty and should be hidden. Fact: It’s a natural process. The body’s way of shedding the uterine lining. Reference: https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/womens-health/in-depth/menstruation/art-20045925 Myth: You can’t exercise during your period. Fact: Exercise can actually relieve cramps and improve mood. Reference: https://www.womenshealth.gov/a-z-topics/menstruation Myth: You’ll get pregnant if you have unprotected sex during your period. Fact: While rare, it’s possible. However, ovulation doesn’t happen during menstruation. Reference: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3465823/ Myth: Drinking too much water can cause heavy bleeding. Fact: Water has nothing to do with period flow. Heavy bleeding may be due to other factors. Reference: https://www.healthline.com/health/menstrual-cycle/heavy-bleeding Myth: Menstruation makes you lazy and […]

Stop masturbating: when, why and what happens to the body

Recommendations Regarding Masturbation Cessation Reduced dopamine levels: Stopping can lead to a decrease in dopamine, impacting mood and motivation. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5455504/ Increased testosterone: May result in higher serum testosterone, affecting libido and muscle mass. Improved sleep quality: Some experience better sleep with less frequent masturbation, due to reduced arousal. Enhanced focus & productivity: A decrease in sexual thoughts & urges can boost mental clarity. Improved emotional regulation: Some report less mood swings and better emotional control with abstinence. Potential for sexual dysfunction: In some cases, cessation can temporarily increase urges & potentially lead to erectile dysfunction. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26440143/ Consider underlying issues: Masturbation […]

Does having sex lower blood pressure? Here’s what science says

Research suggests that sexual activity can have a positive effect on blood pressure. Studies have shown that regular sexual intercourse may help lower systolic blood pressure, which is the pressure in blood vessels when the heart beats. This effect is thought to be due to the release of oxytocin and endorphins during sexual activity, which can promote relaxation and reduce stress. However, it’s important to note that the blood pressure-lowering effects of sex are generally short-term and comparable to other forms of mild to moderate exercise. While sex can contribute to overall cardiovascular health, it should not be considered a […]

Having sex on vacation: everything you need to know to cope with summer romance

Communication is key: Talk to your partner about expectations and boundaries. This avoids misunderstandings and ensures both of you are on the same page. Safe sex is a must: Use protection, especially if you’re not in a committed relationship. Condoms are essential and can prevent unwanted pregnancies and STIs. Consider the destination: Some places have strong social norms. Be aware of the local laws and customs to avoid any embarrassing or legal issues. Plan ahead: If you’re looking for something more serious, discuss it with your partner before indulging. Vacation romance can be fleeting. Don’t let it ruin your trip: […]

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