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Increasing a woman’s sexual pleasure in intimacy is possible
Increasing a woman’s sexual pleasure in intimacy is possible: no, there are no magic formulas, just a few techniques and tricks that can increase female pleasure. First of all, to experience more pleasure in intimacy, it is essential not to focus solely and exclusively on achieving orgasm, obsessively. Enjoy the moment and don’t get overwhelmed by the idea that if you don’t orgasm you have wasted time and experience: try to feel good in intimacy with your partner regardless of the quantity and quality of the orgasm you experience. If, however, this condition makes you particularly nervous and dissatisfied, talk to experts (gynecologist or psychologist) so that you can get psycho-physical confirmation about your state of health.
Another important aspect concerns knowledge Of one’s own body and that of one’s partner: Knowing what you like and what your partner likes makes you more aware of how to experience pleasure. However, there are ways to keep in mind to increase sexual pleasure. Ready to find out what they are?
How to delay orgasm: what is edging
Edging is a very seductive and stimulating erotic practice that allows you to control and delay orgasm: in this way, pleasure and play as a couple or individual can be prolonged. It is an ideal technique for getting to know each other or reviving the sexuality of established couples, which can increase pleasure and experience orgasm in a more intense and prolonged way. Play, experiment and find out if this practice can help you in increasing pleasure.
There are no contraindications, only one recommendation: listen to yourself and your partner to increase sexual pleasure and thus increase understanding and the affinity of the couple.
Involve as many senses as you can
To create a magical atmosphere for your intimate moments engage all the senses: dimmed lights and sexy underwear to increase arousal, scented candles and aromas, caressing and massaging to stimulate touch (using hot wax from special candles or ice cubes), you can try whispering and sharing sexual fantasies and desires in your partner’s ear, and playing with chocolate, honey, and strawberries to be enjoyed on your partner’s body or shared together. Ways to stimulate arousal are many: from the free rein to your imagination and desires and have fun experimenting with what you like best.
Turning off a sense of it gives much more pleasure than you think
If it is true that engaging all the senses increases desire and pleasure, we can say the same thing about the opposite: “turning off” one sense in favor of the others gives unique feelings of pleasure. Try blindfolding your partner or getting blindfolded and let touch, taste, and smell do the rest, or let yourself watch while your him is handcuffed, unable to interact with you with his hands-when you release him, he will be charged with passion. In short, try to amuse yourself and your partner by stimulating one sense rather than another and find out how much and how your body reacts to certain stimulations.
Work on breathing
Few women know this, but the breathing is a key element in achieving female pleasure. In fact, breathing can make orgasm more intense: slow, deep breathing relaxes the pelvic floor and muscles, while when intensity and pleasure increase, breaths will also be shorter and faster: by contracting the pelvic muscles, pleasure will also be affected. Try to change the rhythm of your breathing and you will find that your body will also react differently.
Pelvic contractions during penetration: have you ever tried it?
And closely related to breathing is also the importance of the pelvic floor: contractions of these muscles play an essential role in sexual pleasure. If exercised correctly and consistently, like all other muscles, it can lead to more intense orgasms for you and your partner.
Try dual stimulation
Sometimes we don’t think about it: we focus only on one type of stimulation and forget about the rest. It happens during oral sex (if we use our mouth doesn’t mean we can’t use our fingers), as well as in penetration. There are sex toys that can make you feel this sensation, but nothing detracts from playing with your partner (or yourself) for amplified stimulation: double stimulation, double arousal!
Watching erotic movies together
Not only porn, but also erotic films: To start warming up the atmosphere, it might be interesting to watch films together that can take the relationship to a more intimate level. Green light to sexual fantasies and desires on the screen, as well as in reality: perhaps you could replicate what you see or begin masturbation from an erotic vision of other people on the screen. Don’t judge yourself and don’t judge the other person and do only what you feel like trying.
Keep moving even during orgasm
It happens that when you are about to reach orgasm you suddenly freeze, tensing contracted all the muscles in your body. Have you ever tried to keep moving? In this way the stimulation might become even more intense. As always, the secret to good sexuality is to know your body well, the points to stimulate and those that cause the strongest sensations.
Go all in on erogenous zones (and find the one that ignites passion)
Sometimes all it takes is a little touch: a caress, a kiss, even a feather, if used in the right places. The so-called “right spots” are none other than the erogenous zones: In addition to the genital apparatus, the best known, there are also other areas that could provide great physical pleasure. They are very sensitive areas, which help to increase sexual pleasure in an important way: lips, breasts, anus, but also the nape of the neck, the back, the feet-the erogenous zones are varied all over the body, and there is only one way to figure out which one ignites your passion and makes you feel pleasure more than others, and that is to experience them all!