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How many times will you have sex in your life?

It’s a highly personal number. Factors like age, sexual orientation, and personal preferences heavily influence how many times someone has sex. The average is around 10,000 times. This is just a general estimate, not a guarantee. Frequency varies greatly. Some people have sex much more often than others. Early experiences can shape future patterns. The number of partners and types of sexual activity in early adulthood can impact later life. Relationship satisfaction is a bigger factor than quantity. Quality of intimacy and emotional connection are vital for a fulfilling sexual life. Sex is a journey, not a destination. Focus on […]

Summer flirtation: what to do when the vacation ends?

Summer Flirtation: Post-Vacation Considerations Define the Connection: Was it a casual fling or something deeper? Clarity is key. Communication is Crucial: Express your feelings honestly, but be prepared for any outcome. Respect Boundaries: If they’re not interested in a continuation, accept it gracefully. Manage Expectations: Don’t assume a long-distance relationship will be easy. Plan for the Future: If you want to maintain the connection, establish a plan. Focus on Yourself: Prioritize your well-being and continue enjoying your life. Consider the Long-Term: Is this something you see lasting beyond the summer? https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-mysteries-love/201308/summer-love-how-make-it-last https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-summer-love Source: iStock What to do when the summer […]

Side effects of the birth control pill, when they appear and what to do

Side Effects of the Birth Control Pill Spotting/Bleeding: May occur during the first few months. Consider a different pill or consult a doctor. Nausea/Vomiting: Usually subsides after a few weeks. Take with food or consider a different pill. Breast Tenderness: Common initially, usually resolves. A supportive bra may help. Headaches/Migraines: Some pills may increase headaches. Consult a doctor if severe. Mood Changes: May include depression or anxiety. Consult your doctor if concerning. Weight Changes: May cause weight gain or loss. Diet and exercise can help. Consult your doctor. Reduced libido: Can vary by pill. Discuss concerns with your doctor or […]

Discovering taboos about girls’ sexuality

Recommendations for Discovering Taboos about Girls’ Sexuality Understand societal expectations often influence girls’ sexual expression. Explore historical and cultural perspectives on female sexuality. Recognize that concepts of purity, shame, and pleasure vary widely. Consider the impact of media and religion on girls’ sexual development. Examine how power dynamics influence sexual agency. Acknowledge the existence of sexual coercion and abuse. Seek information from diverse sources like https://www.scarleteen.com/ and https://www.plannedparenthood.org/. Source: 123 RF Sex: no more taboos Fortunately, times are changing; some stereotypes are overcome and several taboos have been released. Not all of them, unfortunately, and it must be admitted that […]

BDSM: what it is and how it brings pleasure

B Source: Shutterstock What it is The BDSM acronym stands for: Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. These are all very eloquent words that explain a lot about what the general pleasure trends. Although BDSM practices are considered practices corresponding to Atypical and unusual sexual behaviors, in fact are quite widespread. Being tied, whipped, or spanked are all practices that bring pleasure to those who enact them. They should not be immediately labeled as “strange” habits, but real practices that also have an important implication on stress management, self-esteem, the way one stands in the world. One […]

Coitus interruptus: what is it and what are the risks

Coitus interruptus: what is it and what are the risks

Coitus interruptus, also known as the withdrawal method, involves the male partner withdrawing his penis from the vagina before ejaculation to prevent pregnancy. Here are seven recommendations about this method: Remember, it’s vital to discuss and consider all contraception options…

Is it normal to feel like trying strange things in sex?

* Source: iStock Sexual intercourse: normality and strange things When having sex with a person we like is normal To feel like trying new things: they may be strange, unusual things, different from normal, but not wrong or to be repressed. So what to do when you have sexual fantasies that you want to act out? Simple: enact them without feeling guilty! Obviously, it is important to share what we want to do with our partner and, always paying attention to using precautions and respecting each other, begin to discover sex even through unusual things or strange situations. What is […]

Desire: how hormones affect sexual pleasure

The brain is the first sexual organ, in women and also in men. It is from here that the stimuli for a good propensity for mating, intimacy, pleasure and even the ability to reproduce start. To be more precise, it is thehypothalamus the control unit that commands and from which follicle-stimulating hormones (which in men stimulate the production of sperm and in women of oocyte and estrogen) and luteinizing hormones (which leads to the production in men of testosterone and in women of corpus luteum, which in turn produces progesterone) are produced. It is always […]

What is (and what is not) consensus culture

What is (and what is not) Consensus Culture Emphasis on group agreement: Consensus culture prioritizes reaching a decision all parties find acceptable. Focus on collaboration: It involves open communication and shared decision-making. Not about unanimous agreement: Consensus doesn’t necessitate everyone being 100% in favor, but rather that all voices are heard and concerns addressed. Decision-making may be slower: Achieving consensus can be time-consuming due to the need for thorough discussion. Can lead to better solutions: Diverse perspectives contribute to richer and more sustainable solutions. Not about avoiding conflict: Healthy conflict can be productive in consensus-building processes. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consensus_decision-making Requires active participation: […]

How to tell if it’s just sex or something more

How to Tell if it’s Just Sex or Something More Emotional Investment: Genuine interest in your life, not just physical needs. Exclusivity: Do they actively seek other partners? Future Plans: Are they incorporating you into their future goals? Quality Time: Spending time together beyond just intimacy. Communication & Openness: Do they share thoughts & feelings about non-sexual matters? Respect & Consideration: Do they consistently prioritize your wellbeing? Consistency: Patterns of behaviour reveal intentions. References: https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-casual-sex https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex-relationships#what-makes-a-relationship-healthy Source: iStock How to tell if it’s just sex? Everyone has his own way of relating to others, more expansive or more reserved, more […]

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