Tips and Tricks for Carefree Outdoor Lovemaking
- Choose a secluded spot: Privacy is key.
- Consider the terrain: Soft ground is more comfortable.
- Pack a blanket: For comfort and warmth.
- Be mindful of bugs and wildlife: Use repellent.
- Check the weather: Avoid rain or extreme heat.
- Clean up after yourselves: Leave no trace.
- Protect yourself: Use condoms and be aware of STIs.
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Where and how to make love outdoors
Making love is one of the most beautiful moments to experience with another person. It is an emotion that cannot be explained, but it must be constantly brought to the couple’s attention so that it does not become routine. So off to new things (such as sex toys to use together) or new situations to increase that sense of thrill and adrenaline, useful to make sex always fulfilling and satisfying. For this, making love outdoors can be a unique experience to ignite (or reignite) arousal. Being discovered and doing something not quite legal can increase (indeed, it definitely does) this state of adrenaline and passion, also increasing complicity and fellowship between the two partners.
Hot places for outdoor lovemaking
Some outdoor places lend themselves more to romantic moments, while others are related more to spontaneous passion and even a more exhibitionist aspect, but care must always be taken: having sex outdoors is a practice that contravenes Article 527 of the Penal Code for indecent acts in a public place. In addition, there is to remember that nowadays, cameras and smartphones are virtually everywhere, so it is fine to live in the moment and get swept up in the passion, but it is also important to be aware of the risks. For this, just “studying” the right location will be enough to have intimacy that is needed, without being in places that are neither particularly prominent nor extremely isolated.
- Making love on the beach: The beach is one of the most popular places to make love outdoors, especially in summer, of course. Very romantic, in such cases it is important to choose the beach area carefully, so that it is not too crowded. In addition, it is recommended to bring a beach towel: in this way your private parts will not touch the sand and you can minimize the risks of annoying (and unpleasant) bacterial infections caused precisely by sand friction.
- Making love by the sea: the wave motion, the half-naked bodies close together, and it can happen that the sea gives some good ideas. So yes to sex at sea, but don’t worry if intercourse doesn’t complete or if you have difficulties: water, in fact, does not lubricate, rather, it dries out the natural vaginal fluid. So if you are planning to make love in the sea, you may want to consider bringing along a silicone-based lubricant, which is more long-lasting, and a condom, which is always important to avoid unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases. If you decide to have sex at sea in the evening, with fewer prying eyes around, don’t stray too far from the shore, and before you dive take a look at the tides and currents to make the most of your evening.
- Making love in the pool: As with seawater, chlorinated water in a swimming pool can decrease vaginal fluid, so a condom and lubricant can help in alleviating this discomfort as well as, of course, preventing hygiene and disease problems and unwanted pregnancies. In the case of the swimming pool, it is important to choose a place that is as quiet as possible, that is, away from the crowds.
- Making love in the car: the car is not really an outdoor place, but it is definitely a variation to the traditional bed and couch, which could liven up and give that extra adrenaline rush. It is a great compromise to have sex in a different way, but also to maintain some intimacy. In this case, in addition to the right location (away from busy streets and buildings, but not isolated to avoid unpleasant encounters), attention should be paid to the clothes, easy to take off and put back on, but also to small tricks such as: bring a towel for upholstery, but also to cover the windows, engage the handbrake, and close the doors from the inside.
- Making love in the park: in this case, important is to bring a towel if you decide to lie down. The towel is essential so as not to rest one’s private parts on the ground and thus decrease the chances of being stung by insects or small spiders. There are also other suitable places for making love in the park, such as standing leaning against a tree or on a bench. In any case, first make sure it is a fairly secluded place so you will not be seen by passersby, try to keep as much clothing on as possible, and sprinkle yourself with insect repellent-the smell may not be extremely exciting, but the insect bites afterwards can be even more annoying.
- Making love on the terrace: definitely outdoors, but on private property, that of one’s own home. Making love on the terrace is borderline legal, but you certainly expose yourself to being filmed by your neighbors’ smartphones. Be careful not to be too visible or make too loud sounds-and always be on the lookout! Maybe it could be ideal for a quick sexual intercourse!
What to bring during outdoor sex
Summer is a great ally of lovemaking “en plein air”: accomplices are certainly the warm weather, but also lighter and more comfortable clothes in “special” situations such as outdoor sex and a more jaunty and lively state of mind. New sparks are coming, then, so how best to prepare yourself if you decide to make love outdoors?
Regardless of the place you choose to indulge in this new breath of intimacy and passion, always remember to bring:
- Comfortable clothing: Summer is a good friend for this! So yes to dresses and skirts for her, shorts for him.
- Condoms (and lube): Condoms are essential to protect against sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies, so wherever you decide to have sex it is important to carry at least one. Lubricant makes intercourse easier in the water, but also at other times, where perhaps anxiety and fear of being caught can lead to dryness instead of increased arousal. The important thing is to listen to yourself and also have lubricant on hand in case you want to proceed with outdoor lovemaking.
- Towels: In cases such as beach, park, areas around the pool, or car, towels and cloths are used to keep the private parts from touching the ground. This decreases the likelihood of genital infection, and can also be useful for not soiling (the car) and covering yourself if you are discovered by some stranger.
3 tips to follow to keep your mind clear
Finally, if you decide to have sex outdoors, there are 3 small tips to follow to feel good and enjoy the experience:
- Instinct yes, but thoughtful.
Making love outdoors is something extremely instinctive, but, at the same time, it is good to arrive prepared for the date: choosing the venue, bringing everything you need, and always being a little alert will ensure a magical experience to enjoy with your partner.
- Positions.
There are no positions more suitable than others, the important thing is to be comfortable and as inconspicuous as possible, precisely to avoid prying eyes (and problems with the law).
- Have fun, but always keep an eye open!
Check the place, bring the necessities, and use common sense, always, depending on the circumstance and where you are, but of course let yourself go a little bit, too, Have fun together and create magical moments to live and relive.
