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Sensuality and fun: the striptease
Do you like the idea of always doing something new and different with your partner? Lo striptease is definitely a great way to increase arousal and libido, as well as strengthen the relationship and the understanding of the couple!
If you’ve seen any of the old movies, such as “Nine and a Half Weeks” or “Sin City,” you may not have missed the scenes in which the leading ladies engage in striptease sensual, exciting and fun: this is the right spirit with which to approach this erotic dance perfect for enlivening your sex life.
The 10 tips for a fun and fiery striptease
There are no set rules for a striptease to be perfect, but tricks can be followed to make it sensual and pleasant, for those who do it and for those who watch it.
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The importance of the song
The song choice is a crucial moment: not only will it set the rhythm for your movements, but it will be the soundtrack of the right “vibes” for you and the person watching. It can be slow and sensual or more eventful and enterprising: There is no right song and no wrong song, the important thing is that you like it and it makes you feel sexy.
Slow movements
Let the body move slowly so that it takes on sensual poses. Feel desired and desirable, so that you approach him and then move away, show just something of your body and then cover yourself, in a sensual and exciting game.
Eye contact
When you dance and move, try to look at him. At first you may feel a little embarrassed, but try to go further: look into his eyes and then look down, on the areas you want him to focus. Guide him to you with your gaze and let him know that this is a game you are playing for him (and for you!).
Don’t forget to smile
The more serious expression is definitely more sensual, but if during your ballet you throw winking, amused smiles at him., will increase the synergy between you, as well as the desire… try it to believe!
Carefully choose the right (underwear) clothing
Wear a sexy underwear: hold-ups, garter belt and long gloves can also be useful accessories to increase desire and arousal. Or wear a XL shirt: unbuttoning it and taking it off will be even more exciting.
All the details are important
Leave nothing to chance: makeup, hair and heels, are important details that can make all the difference. Don’t wear heavy makeup, but follow your style and the way you prefer to look; keep your hair down, or start with a crop, but simple to bob, so you can also play with your hair and head movements for irresistible sensuality. And don’t forget the heels: choose comfortable shoes, as you will dance a bit on these shoes, but prefer shoes with heels, maybe pumps, which are highly sensual and easy to take off.
Don’t neglect the environment
Before you start your dance, check that the environment is in order: perhaps you can light a few candles and spray a room fragrance around. There are even aphrodisiacs, designed specifically for occasions like these! Also check the lighting: soft, giving that see-through play.
Be inspired
For inspiration you can watch Kim Basinger in “Nine 1/2 Weeks” or Natalie Portman in “Closer,” but also Jessica Alba in “Sin City” or Dita Von Teese or even the movie “Burlesque”-you’re sure to find some moves to make your own!
Practice some right and improvised moves
Don’t forget hand positions, which should caress and graze your body as, one piece at a time, you remove the underwear you are wearing. To feel comfortable, do a few trials in front of the mirror, but don’t learn a choreography in your head, otherwise you’ll think about the steps and not about having fun and getting excited! Remember a few sexy moves and then improvise!
Have fun!
This is the advice we feel to give you in the most dispassionate way! Have fun, take the situation ironically to avoid embarrassment and let yourself go, feel sexy and you will see that seducing and arousing him will never be so much fun.
How do you undress?
Start by dancing and moving slowly, perhaps starting on your back. If it helps, play with a chair so you can sit down and walk around it. After that start taking off your clothes very slowly: start at the top and then start taking off what you are wearing at the bottom.
Some garments throw them towards him as well., e.g., the hold-up, the garter belt or directly the bra to increase his desire even more, which will be increasing especially if you play with him, teasing him. But beware! To make it even more exciting, he may not touch you for the duration of the dance, and then yes, once it is over, you will go crazy for each other.
What if the striptease is on video?
Whether you decide to do the striptease live or on video, then remotely, the main thing is definitely still fun and sensuality. Obviously consider to whom you are sending your striptease: know well and trust the person in question. The things to pay attention to still remain the same, but with a few more caveats.
- The song choice remains essential for feeling comfortable and dancing sensually. In this case, remember to rehearse audio with your phone or webcam so that you hear the audio at a pleasant volume, neither too high nor too low.
- Rehearse the movements: In this case, you will not be able to get too close to the camera because some parts of the movement would be lost. It is necessary, therefore, that you keep the right distance from the camera so that you are always in the frame: focus on the movements, which are more accentuated, so that you do not lose the sensuality in the video.
- Look into the camera and smile, despite the distance: even if not physically present, your facial expression is always an important detail to pay attention to for greater involvement.
- Clothing, makeup and hair remain to be taken care of even for a video striptease: these are all important aspects to play with a bit.
- Don’t underestimate light and lighting: as important as it is that you do not have a spotlight pointed at you during the striptease and your image appears veiled, it is still true that the person looking at you something must see! For this reason, as with audio, it is advisable to do some rehearsing with the camera and variations of lighting in the room (which should be neat and tidy anyway, at least the part framed in the video), so as to achieve a sensual and pleasing result.
- Enjoy: if you enjoy yourself, if you feel beautiful, sensual, overwhelming and witty, the person looking at you will perceive just that, regardless of the more or less accurate movements. Let yourself go and enjoy the experience.
